If you're married or in a partnership, it can be difficult to imagine it ending. But planning for this eventuality is like home and contents insurance - you hope you'll never need it, but you know you're better off for having it.
When you're making a financial plan, it's really important that you're both involved in the process, and that the future financial security of both of you is taken care of.
On 1 February 2002, the matrimonial property law changed. Make sure you know how the law change affects you and your partner.
Everyone's attitude to money is different. You may well have very different ways of approaching money matters. Money is one of the big issues that couples often disagree about. This is natural, because managing money involves human nature! Try the money personality profiler to confirm what you might already know about one another. And use what you learn to help you understand the other person's needs and to work constructively through your financial planning together.
When two people are managing money together, its only natural that there'll be differences of opinion. Make sure you talk about your finances openly and honestly. And be prepared to compromise with each other.
You should know how your financial situation would be affected if your relationship were to end.
It's easy to assume that the law will take care of us if a relationship ends or one partner dies.
But ask yourself:
Get independent legal advice to ensure that the plans you have in place are fair to both of you.
The New Zealand Law Society has a range of information available from their web site. The information includes:
Getting good legal advice can be a valuable investment to ensure your financial situation is protected, should one of you die or if you separate.